FAQ Becoming a gigolo
Frequently Asked Questions
General information
Who is my contractual partner?
You, as the client, commission us, as the contractor, to create a profile and use our advertising portal.
If a booking request leads to a meeting, the agreement is to be made between you and your client.
Only when using the optional fiduciary service do we step into the spotlight, manage the payments and ensure a smooth handover.
Can anyone create an online profile?
No. Our advertising platform is designed to address a target group that values high quality and style. In order to guarantee this, all escorts must fulfill our requirements.
Please note that we cannot consider every request.
How do I become a gigolo?
If you meet the requirements listed on the casting page, you are welcome to send us a request using the casting form.
Please note that we cannot consider every request. In order to meet our high standards, a personal interview takes place before the profile is created, where we find out whether we are a good match.
If the result is positive, you provide us with any missing information so that we can create and optimize your advertising profile.
Not sure whether the job of an escort is right for you? Here you will find some interesting information on what to expect in the job.
Is there an admission fee?
Yes. There is usually an admission fee for the initial profile creation. You can find out about the amount of the fee and temporary special offers on our casting page.
Why should I choose Escort You?
As an independent escort, you can act freely, manage your booking requests and determine your own level of anonymity through individual booking rules.
You pay no commission and get more of the fee.
Our trustee service gives you more safety. We are your direct contact, assist you with questions of all kinds and treat your information discreetly and confidentially.
Casting and advertising options
Which advertising options are offered?
We offer the following options:
- Payment per profile or
- Payment per booking.
With the “pay-per-profile” option, you pay a one-off fee for a certain period of time.
With the “pay-per-booking” option, a fixed fee is charged for each booking made.
Further details on the exact costs and content of the models can be found on our casting page.
When do I have to pay the advertising fee?
Pay-per-profile advertising option:
The fee is paid before your online advertising profile is created and is payable once for a specific period.
If you use the trustee service, we will retain the service fees and transfer the difference to you.
Pay-per-booking advertising option:
The advertising fee is charged for initial bookings as well as for each follow-up booking without an official request through our platform and must be paid after each meeting. Violations will result in immediate exclusion.
If the trustee service is used, we will retain the fee and transfer the difference to you. You don’t have to worry about anything else.
Casting form submitted. What happens next?
We will get in touch with you within the next few days and, ideally, send you a selection of dates for a personal interview. If this is positive, you will provide us with any missing information and we will take care of creating your profile.
What is the casting interview like?
The interview lasts approx. 15 minutes and is conducted digitally. Extensive preparation on your part is not necessary. It’s our aim to find out whether we are a good match.
You will receive feedback from us no later than one day after the personal interview.
What information do I need to provide?
After the personal interview, we will send you a form containing all the information we need for your advertising profile. You fill out the form and send us meaningful, current pictures of yourself. If you don’t have any high-quality photos yet, now is the best time to have a professional photo shoot.
Trustee service & fee
How does the trustee service work?
You and your customers can make use of the trustee service once you have agreed on an appointment. This gives you safety even before your booking and protects your true identity. You will be charged a fee of 4% of the total amount, which you have wisely included in your fee beforehand. The following steps are required:
1. Specify details & transfer amount
When sending a booking request, your customer will receive a confirmation email with all further details and a payment link. This means that transfers can be made quickly and easily.
Important: No deposits permitted. The total amount incl. travel expenses is to be paid.
2. Feedback & enjoy the date
We will inform you as soon as the amount has been credited to our account. You can then look forward to the date without having to worry about the fee.
Note: Please note that it will take some time between the transfer and receipt of the money.
How is my fee paid?
If you use the fiduciary service, we will transfer the amount received by us, minus any fees, within 3 days of the end of the meeting.
For cash payments, we recommend that you have your clients hand over your fee in an envelope at the beginning of the meeting and check it discreetly.
How is my fee calculated?
As a self-employed escort or callboy, you have the freedom to set your own fee scale according to your own discretion and experience. Nevertheless, we recommend that you orientate yourself on the fees of other escorts or callboys.
Note: The fees of call boys are usually lower than the fees for escort ladies and escort trans*.
Unfortunately, I have to cancel the confirmed appointment at short notice. What now?
It is best to try to find an alternative date. If this is not possible, any advance payments already made must be refunded to your customer.
If you have used the trustee service, please let us know so that we can carry out the return transfer. In this case, the fees for the trustee service are to be paid by you as compensation for expenses.
After the appointment confirmation it has been canceled, now what?
We recommend finding an alternative date together. This saves everyone involved time, effort and money. If this is not possible, the following rule applies:
- If you use the trustee service and cancel less than 48 hours before the start of the appointment, any deposits paid by your clients will be retained by us and paid to you as compensation (20% of the fee).
- If you use the fiduciary service and cancel more than 48 hours before the start of the appointment, the appointment can be made up within 4 weeks depending on your availability. Compensation is not provided in this case.
Booking rules & communication
How is the appointment coordinated?
You manage the booking requests and appointments yourself. Although your customers specify their preferred medium for contacting you, you can also deviate from this and refer to your booking rules.
Can I insist on a picture being sent to me?
Yes. In your individual booking rules, you can define what your conditions for a meeting are and which contact options you allow.
What can I define in my booking rules?
With your booking rules, you can show your customers the conditions under which bookings with you are possible before they make contact.
You determine the
- Choice of communication channel
- Selection of persons authorized to make bookings
- Prerequisite for a preliminary image
- Fee transfer, advance payments and reimbursement of travel expenses
- Type of fee transfer
- Possibility of home and hotel visits
- Satisfaction guarantee offer
Can I also decline booking requests?
Naturally. You are independent and have full freedom to accept or reject booking requests at your own discretion. A charming rejection on your part should also be out of the question.
Discretion, legal matters & security
How can I protect myself and my true identity?
- Use a second cell phone for telephone contact. This way you avoid that your private cell phone number is associated with your escort identity.
- Never disclose your private bank details. Popular payment methods such as PayPal also do not offer complete anonymity.
- Use our fiduciary service. This gives you security in advance and allows you to protect your true identity at the same time.
- Clever parking. Always choose an inconspicuous parking space when visiting a house or hotel and avoid your customer seeing it.
- Spy-Check. An open laptop in the hotel room could take unwanted pictures of you. Politely ask them to close it, or gallantly do it yourself.
- Keeping secrets. Only reveal as much of your private life as you feel comfortable with. This also applies to your private social media accounts.
What do I need to bear in mind when handling my customers' data?
Reliability and discretion are our top priorities. We treat your information and details with absolute confidentiality and expect you to handle your customers’ data just as discreetly and responsibly. We would like to point out that you are legally obliged to ensure that no data is passed on to third parties. In addition, you may not store your customers’ data for longer than is necessary to fulfill your service.
Please note that it is your responsibility to comply with the statutory data protection regulations.
Do I have to register a business?
No. As a provider of escort services, you are self-employed. Nevertheless, you are legally obliged to declare your turnover to the tax office and register your self-employment. As an activity you can, for example Specify “Escort” or “Escort service”.
Further details on tax obligations can be found in the linked BesD article.
Please note that the legal situation may vary from country to country and compliance with your obligations is your sole responsibility. We do not carry out any checks and accept no liability for the accuracy of our information.
Do I have to take a health test?
If your escort service includes erotic services, you are legally obliged to register your activity and undergo a health consultation with the public health service before registering for the first time. Registration and health advice must be repeated regularly.
Further details on your legal obligations can be found on the linked information page of the BMFSFJ.
We recommend that you carry out regular health tests. You are responsible for your own health check and should take it extremely seriously.
Contraception
The prevention of sexually transmitted diseases is mandatory and an absolute obligation.
Non-compliance or unprotected sexual intercourse (AO) will result in exclusion from this portal.
We are clearly committed to the health and safety of everyone and also distance ourselves from customers who are careless with their own health and that of others.
If erotic acts take place during your meeting, the currently applicable ProstSchG is relevant in Germany. We draw your attention to your obligations. If necessary, find out about the legal situation in other countries yourself.
Additional information Callboys
What is the satisfaction guarantee?
The satisfaction guarantee is a voluntary option that can help you gain the trust of potential clients and increase the likelihood of a booking. For women in particular, the decision to book a callboy often involves more thought and effort – a satisfaction guarantee gives them additional security and a good feeling.
By offering this guarantee, you emphasize your self-confidence and your skills as a gentleman and seducer. If, contrary to expectations, a customer is not satisfied, it is at your discretion to find a fair solution on the spot.
Escort You focuses on quality, trust and exclusive experiences. Our philosophy is based on mutual appreciation and first-class service. The Satisfaction Guarantee is a way of underlining this commitment and giving clients an all-round good feeling – a voluntary gesture that further emphasizes your professionalism and sensitivity.
Do you still have questions?
You can contact us using the form below. We look forward to hearing from you.